你好，我是布达！
欢迎来到“布达的房间”——我的电子记录簿。我将用接下来的时间在这里回忆过去、记录现在。
毕业于信息管理与信息系统专业的我，曾是一名曾在保险行业和电商行业摸爬滚打，有着多年互联网产品设计管理经验的产品经理。职业工作之外，我还是一名有着十余年LGBTQ+社群服务经历的志愿者，曾与伙伴们共同创立中国大陆第一个全国性双、泛性恋组织——r&B双性恋团体，致力于普及双/泛性恋及多元情欲知识。
除了职业和志愿服务工作，语言学习和文字创作也是我生命中最重要的两个部分。知识和文字的获取，只是向我这空洞的躯壳中不断填充宝贵养料的过程，经过我的再创造将这些输入进行输出，才是我与这美妙世界交互的的方式。目前我已经在B站、小红书、抖音、视频号以及YouTube发布了超过70个原创泰语学习分享视频，并完成了二十余篇短篇小说的创作，未来我还将尝试中文教学，并通过非虚构写作来记录我的生活和思考。
成为我自己，是我爱你的原因。
2014年11月4日，我找到了我的人生伴侣。
起初，我们都不确定对方是不是那个对的人。然而岁月变迁，我们渐渐变成对方深爱的模样，越来越无法离开彼此。
我是女孩，她也是。但她跟我完全不一样，不一样的性格、不一样的爱好、不一样的价值观、不一样的家庭背景和成长环境。
我们就像两只十指交握的手，正好错开，却又紧紧纠缠在一起；又像是世界的黑与白，相互补充，成就彼此。
2024年5月3日，我们决定结束10年的爱情长跑，开始一段新的婚姻生活。
诚然，我们所在的社会还不承认同性伴侣关系，但对于我们俩来说，哪怕是一张并不被承认的结婚证，哪怕是一场只有挚友参与，至亲却缺席的婚礼，也依旧意义非常。这意味着，我们终于做出了一个决定，向这个世界宣告，余下的人生我们选择彼此作为那个携手度过的伴侣，直至世界尽头。
Hello, my name is Buda.
Welcome to "Buda's Room", a space that chronicles my growth and stories.
Graduating with a degree in Information Management and Information Systems, I've navigated the insurance and e-commerce industries, building years of experience as a product manager specializing in internet product design and management. Beyond my professional career, I am also a volunteer with over a decade of experience in LGBTQ+ community service. Together with my peers, I co-founded r&B Bi+ Group, the first national bisexual and pansexual organization in mainland China, dedicated to raising awareness about bisexuality, pansexuality, and diverse sexualities.
Outside of work and volunteerism, language learning and creative writing are two of the most significant parts of my life. Acquiring knowledge and words is like nourishing my otherwise hollow shell, but it's through recreating and sharing that I truly interact with this wonderful world. So far, I've released over 70 original videos on Bilibili, Xiaohongshu, Douyin, Wechat Channels, and YouTube, sharing methods for learning Thai, and I've published 28 short stories. In the future, I plan to explore teaching Chinese and recording my thoughts and experiences through non-fiction writing.
Even though same-sex marriage has not been approved yet, my partner and I have loved each other for over 10 years. Oh, and by the way, I'm also a proud caretaker of a old cat and a naughty dog—because what's life without furry companions? Who says having both cats and dogs isn't just as fulfilling as having kids?
That I can be who I am when I am with you is the reason I love you.
On November 4, 2014, I found the love of my life.
At first, neither of us was sure whether the other was “the one.” But as time passed, we gradually grew into the people each other deeply loved, becoming more and more inseparable.
I'm a woman—and so is she. But she is nothing like me. We have different personalities, different interests, different values, and come from different family backgrounds and upbringings.
We are like two interlaced hands—perfectly staggered, yet tightly entwined. Like black and white in the world, we complement each other and make each other whole.
On May 3, 2024, we decided to end our ten-year-long love journey and begin a new chapter in marriage.
It's true that the society we live in does not yet recognize same-sex partnerships. But for the two of us, even a marriage certificate that holds no legal weight, even a wedding attended only by close friends and not by family, still holds profound meaning. It signifies that we have finally made a decision—to declare to the world that we have chosen each other as life partners, to walk hand in hand for the rest of our lives, until the very end of the world.